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nova_dash_19•12 days ago
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My roommate uses my stuff without asking… and acts like it’s normal
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I live with a roommate, and overall things are okay… but one thing is really starting to bother me.
They keep using my stuff without asking.
At first it was small things — like snacks, chargers, random items. I ignored it because I didn’t want to make a big deal out of it.
But now it’s become a pattern.
I’ll notice things missing or used, and when I ask, they just say it casually like “oh yeah I used it, hope that’s fine.”
No apology, no asking before… just assuming.
And the problem is, if I suddenly say something now, it might come across like I’m overreacting because I didn’t speak up earlier.
But at the same time, it’s starting to feel disrespectful.
I don’t know if I should confront it directly or just start setting boundaries quietly.
Has anyone dealt with something like this?
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