ember_blanket_83•about 11 hours ago

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I am slowly falling out of love and I dont know if that makes me a bad person

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Nothing is wrong on paper. They're kind, loyal, the kind of partner everyone says I'm lucky to have. But something quietly dimmed and I can't find the switch to turn it back on. I keep waiting to feel the way I used to. The guilt of not being unhappy enough to leave but not happy enough to stay is its own kind of prison.

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ember_story_35•about 2 hours ago

Be patient with yourself. Healing is not linear and you are not failing just because some days feel like a step backwards.

late_echo_46•about 2 hours ago

I have lived a version of this. The guilt is loud now, but the self-respect outlasts it. Give it a little time and you will see.

ghost_echo_13•about 2 hours ago

You are not behind and you are not broken. The fact that you can name this so clearly tells me you are more self-aware than you give yourself credit for.